WHaQ! meeting, May 22nd 2011
No cookies required today: got there early, got some work done, panicked when no one was there on the dot at 4, unpanicked when Gurl in the World showed up with beloved a few minutes later. Smallish meeting, 8 people.
- S. is contemplating sex education, sex education re: method, contraception, orientation, predators, awareness. Specifically: school children. S. is contemplating, hazily, being an educator in this line – and if you’re interested in helping out, leave a message here or on the group email.
- One of us is leaving in a few weeks. This sucks.
- This. Children have been separated from their mother, kept captive in a foreign country. Their mum has legal custody, their dad kidnapped them anyway. If you are American, sign this, petition, please? If you are not American, pass it on to someone who is?
- M. brought a dozen books to the office. LADY BOOKS. Or mostly lady books. We left them in an untidy pile on V.’s desk so he could arrange them to perfection on the shelves.
- More of us, those o us who’re comfortable meeting random strangers/men, should come to the Good As You meetings on Thursdays. The meetings are fun sometimes. Also, we should ask if the boys want to play cricket.
- I was taking notes while simultaneously writing, so I have “lesbian demographics” just randomly jotted down in the minutes. I think we were comparing lesbian numbers in China versus India. Statistically speaking, in a decade or so India should have more people, and perhaps therefore more lesbians, than China. (India is composed of people who know how to have sex, and people who think they’ll get pregnant if they’re kissed, by the way. Our population craziness is not caused by a uniform rite of orgy all across the country.)
- Several of us have been shopping lately. Shoes and saris. Saris are pretty, and awesome, and often expensive.
- Queer Ink. “We, at Queer-Ink seek to disempower those who look at others with derision or suspicion or ignorance. We do it not by shutting ourselves out but by embracing the world and all its treasures. We do it through the retailing of books, or the publishing of new works, or even setting up our special Qi Community. ” Go there if you want to read. Go there if you want to write. Just, go.
- Indu Anthony’s Beauty in the Blur project. (And this.)
At some point, we broke up, with most of us heading to Koshy’s. Brandy! Coffee! Tea! Lassi! Food! Loads of people we knew were there, which is why we get to feel snobby about Koshy’s. Or something.